I usually ask myself this question or let me rephrase ‘WHO WILL I MARRY?’

I wouldn’t see myself up there but to an extent as a Christian blogger who God has helped to brighten her little corner, some friends and spiritual fathers will tell me, I just can’t marry anybody.

It’s understood that it’s because of the ministry God has called me into or generally the purpose of God for your life.

I sat down to think, surely God is preparing someone special for me. But two things come to mind, does he have to be someone also writing or will just give his support?

Does it have to be someone so into purpose already, understanding my calling? Well, yes. But how do I know? Will he be writing too so he doesn’t have to be weird about me pressing my phone when I have to upload posts? Lol…

That’s not even the deal breaker. That kind of statement given to people can make us dive into thoughts. One thing to be very careful about is PRIDE

You have grown so much by God’s grace, you are doing exploits and then it’s time to settle down, you can’t settle for less, he has to have the mantle too, he has to be making impacts too and all sorts. If you are not careful, pride and the expectations of how you want him to be will creep in.

A lover of God and who fears God might come and then you start to evaluate him in your mind, how much impact has he made?

Does he have a ministry too? But just what if he doesn’t have?

Another part of you is telling you how much you of importance marrying someone purposeful. Then you start to have a shift in your heart. You create an idol of a very spiritual man who is seen everywhere working for God. Oh! A man of integrity is good.

When others not in that category come through, you are quick to judge immediately, you can’t seem to settle for less you say.

I’ve seen couples who are not even having same ministry so to say, at least the wife is a public figure in writing, preaching, etc while the husband is none of that. Are they not compatible.

Be humble and opened as you ask for settlement. God knows the end from the beginning, he knows who he has deposited into the support for your vision and only through him not the physical eye can you see this.

That he is spiritual, asks you for every move for your ministry doesn’t mean he has been assigned for that job, oh you say you don’t want to miss a good thing! Watch out for the BEST God has to offer.

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Author: Faith Adegboye

ADEGBOYE FAITH is a Spirit-filled daughter of God who is passionate about a consistent personal relationship with the Father. She is a Medical Laboratory Scientist, budding photographer, designer, speaker, blogger, singer and counselor. She is also the originator of https://faithfulwrites.com, which covers all aspects of spirituality, health, etc generally with the goal of insuring her corner. She's an award winning writer; winning the 3rd place position at Deraconteur's Writers Club writing course (1.0)

4 Replies to “WHO WILL MARRY ME?

  1. I feel God’s plan for us or let me say me is balance. Even if my husband doesn’t have a ministry or doesn’t make much of a impact, what I want to believe is that he would balance out my own purpose. We don’t have to have the same purpose or we don’t have to be going in the same direction but what is most important is balance.
    That’s how I feel.

  2. Everyone Christian believers/spiritual human being want someone who love Jesus more than them fact Good idea for all, if we get someone not up to us or not more than we can build up.

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