Partner found, purpose questioned.

The form of misplaced prayer points has made so many people wail. The quest of satisfying only our emotional vacuum has blinded us against our purpose vacuum in life. Thanks to God for many eye opening programs on finding our purpose.

Don’t be surprised that you can be in the category because you have been overwhelmed and you have been answered according to the desires of your heart. You seem to have found “the one” but if you are asked what you want do in years to come, you don’t know. You don’t know what support you are to give to who you have found.
Can two work together except they agree?(Amos3:3)

Marriage is an agreement of purpose, mission and vision and I doubt that you can identify who his will is for you without knowing what you should be to that person which aligns with your ministry.
There are some things that will be birthed in your single moments that are for the proper joining of your vision. In as much as singers might not marry singers or actors marry actors in all circumstances. There will be something deposited in you to support whatsoever the other chooses. Understand that career is not purpose, so if the other seems to work in a bank or an entrepreneur that you are not, there’s going to be an alignment from God to help him or her in the course of his work.

I know we can get to a certain age where the urge to find someone is exhausting, but we can turn in that urge to Christ to release unto us that which he has for us to be able to complement who is coming.

Some of us won’t even get answers to the constant prayers to find the one,not because God is not listening but because he has not finished or you have not allowed him to start his complementary work in you. He knows the future and He won’t be willing to give an half-baked to his choice for you.

Jeremiah 18:1-3
[1]The word which came to Jeremiah from the LORD, saying,
[2]Arise, and go down to the potter’s house, and there I will cause thee to hear my words.
[3]Then I went down to the potter’s house, and, behold, he wrought a work on the wheels.
That’s the instruction from God to you today, visit the Potter’s house.

Jeremiah 18:6

[6]O house of Israel, cannot I do with you as this potter? saith the LORD. Behold, as the clay is in the potter’s hand, so are ye in mine hand, O house of Israel.

Just like verse 6, Rest in his hand to mould you so you can find yourself.

Author: Faith Adegboye

ADEGBOYE FAITH is a Spirit-filled daughter of God who is passionate about a consistent personal relationship with the Father. She is a Medical Laboratory Scientist, budding photographer, designer, speaker, blogger, singer and counselor. She is also the originator of, which covers all aspects of spirituality, health, etc generally with the goal of insuring her corner. She's an award winning writer; winning the 3rd place position at Deraconteur's Writers Club writing course (1.0)

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